Cheating and Pregnancy?

I have a strong feeling that my boyfriend is cheating, we just moved together, and he always claims he is at work, working from like 6 a.m. to 10 p.m. and talks to his ex girlfriends, and recently had sum bytch textin him talkin about he is her pop tart and she is his sweet pea (that wack shyt)



he swears up and down he not but i dont beleive it one bit.



then he tells me he is used to us not having sex since i got preg and barely ask for anything, then we are home together he is mostly, on the computer or in another room.



i hate this, when we first met things were great even before i got preg. but now its horrible, we argue ev eryday and he says he wouldnt spend so much money on me if he was cheating but that could be his way of hiding it.



please help!
Cheating and Pregnancy?
girl maybe he's just still a little freaked out that ur pregnant and this is his way of dealing with it, not cheating, but talking to other people and staying away from you. U should sit him down and talk to him about what bothers u and how u guys can make it better. u know he still loves u babe, he's just adjusting to everything. but yeah, u need to put ur foot down and tell him to stop talking to his exes. he got u pregnant, now he needs to step up and take care of his family and put u and ur baby first. Ur number one girl
Reply:I'm sorry you have to deal with these thoughts. Sometimes pregnancy makes you think silly things since you're so emotional right now. You both need to sit down and have a serious conversation and get all these things out. You don't want to go through your whole pregnancy questioning every move he makes. You two need to come to some sort of understanding.
Reply:well that was dumb on both on both of you. you two are obviously not meant to be together and now you bring a child into the mess. thats whats wrong with this world now. he should be a husband first and have your priorities straight before making babies. why dont you people grow up before you do this crap!
Reply:Oh yeah...unfortunetly he is. I suggest you do some thinking on what's best for you and the baby. It might be a scary thought of going it alone, but sometimes its better that way. You certainly don't need to catch anything from him and cause problems with the pregnancy. I wish you the best.
Reply:take a couple of drives by his work. i know it sounds like stalking but you need to put your mind at ease. If you go to his work and he is not there don't call him out on it the first time. Go everyday for like a week and a half and make sure if he's not there you write it down that way he can't say he was on a break or something else like that. as for the text i'm not sure my Fiance occasionally gets weird text like that from his ex and he just ignores them. some girls just can't get a clue. oh and if he truely is working that many hours he should be bringing home a damn good pay check to you and the baby. good luck to you. oh and congrats!
Reply:reality, more than likely he is, and don't expect it to stop... sorry for you.... not being sarcastic, but that is the reality of it
Reply:Thats easy, check his hours at work and see if he really is working or surely it would show on his check stub.



If he really loved you he wouldnt be talking to his ex if he knew it bothered you and sure in the hell wouldn't have chicks texting him things like that.



And the money thing, sometime if a guy is cheating he will spend money on you because they feel guilty, and even if he does spend money on you so what...is that supposed to show you he loves you? Couldnt he find a better way.
Reply:he is cheating.

pop up at his job when he claims hes at work. nobody works 16hrs unless ur a firefighter or a doctor. he dont sound like no doctor.

and lil nicknames are inappropriate for ppl who are not in a relationship.

tell him you need less of his money and more of his time.

ur pregnant you need his emotional and financial support.